Author Archives: Alisa Hafkin

Get Moving in NYC

Our minds and our bodies are intimately connected. This seems obvious because our brains are the central control center of everything that happens in our bodies. But somehow we can forget that it goes both ways: our bodies also affect … Continue reading

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Nutrition and Mental Health

More and more scientific evidence is demonstrating a powerful link between the food we eat and our mental health. Nutrition fuels our brains as well as our bodies. Therefore, we should choose brain-healthy food in order to keep our brains … Continue reading

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Mindfulness: The Secret to Success

Though the word “mindfulness” is familiar to many, few people really know what it means or how to practice it. I frequently recommend mindfulness techniques to my clients as part of my therapy practice as it has a very powerful … Continue reading

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Self-Compassion and Moving Past Regret

We all make mistakes. But what you do with your mistakes can make the difference between a life of peace and purpose—and a life of rumination and regret. As a psychotherapist in New York City, I have worked with many … Continue reading

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Working Through Male Infertility

Our society focuses heavily on infertility problems related to women. However, men account for infertility in about half of all cases. The focus on women may be because men do not appear to be as affected by the diagnosis of … Continue reading

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New Fathers and Their Mental Health

Welcoming a new child into the family is a time of great excitement and joy. But it can also be a time of stress, especially with the first child, since you’re entering into an entirely new experience. Most attention is … Continue reading

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Resolving Money Conflicts in Your Marriage

Money is one of the most common conflicts that can crop up in marriage and many couples say it is their most challenging relationship issue. Fortunately, there are very effective ways to resolve such conflicts and bring you and your … Continue reading

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Is Your Perfectionism Causing Your Anxiety?

Perfectionism and anxiety have an interesting link. Walking around NYC, you may see people who look as if they are perfect. From cars and clothes to addresses and jobs, they may all look perfect. The problem begins when you start … Continue reading

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Creative Outlets to Ease Stress

Did you know that adding a little creativity to your life can help ease stress? You do not need to be an artist – you don’t even need to show anyone your projects. But studies have shown that creative expression … Continue reading

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My Spouse Has ADHD, and I Feel Like I Am Parenting My Spouse

When we think of ADHD, we usually think of children. However, studies show that, while symptoms may decrease in adulthood, only 15-35% of children with ADHD completely outgrow the full disorder. So if you have a spouse with ADHD symptoms, … Continue reading

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